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    Thanks @fox it is good to know I am not alone! It is wonderful, and fascinating and horrible at the same time. Therapy makes you more aware but it also makes life more difficult. I realise I have spent a lot of time trying to be very accommodating, and deep down I want to change that and be more assertive. But also you worry that the people who love you won't love you (as much / in the same way / at all) if you are less accommodating. Also it means you are less fluffy and even a bit of an asshole at times. It is hard to maintain healthy boundaries and not be a bit of a dick on occasion... especially if it is new to you. So I have this inner war, and also some fears.
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    Welcome Clarissa

    Welcome Clarissa!
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    Welcome Echoshae

    Just about 😂
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    Welcome Mistress Raina

    Oh wow! I knew that you were married but how did I miss the babies update 😍 so cuuuutttteeee
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    Welcome Echoshae

    Hey newbie - welcome home. How is life treating you? 😘
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    Welcome Mistress Raina

    Welcome home Mistress Raina - good to see you again, digitally speaking. 😍
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    What are you reading at the moment?

    Is it working?
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    What are you reading at the moment?

    Circe by Madeline Miller
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    Sam and Dean death infographic:
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    It is my favourite long running show tho I admit I lost track of it recently, because we don't have it on TV and we have to download it. I am not sure what season we got to but it felt like they had reached a point where they couldn't find ever eviller and badder enemies and so they were just alternating between Sam, Dean and Castiel being in danger / possessed or dead. Or maybe I just got confused. I still love it though and I am going to get caught up before the final season.
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    Supernatural has just announced that Season 15 will be the last. I think it deserves its own tribute thread.
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    After years of pretending to be ok and failing I have been persuaded (by people who care about me) to have therapy. I am going to see a CBT trained therapist weekly at the moment. It is interesting, I have only had two sessions and while I am getting better at recognising problems I haven't learned really how to fix them haha. So it kind of feels worse, but at least I have the sense that I am 'on it'. There is a relief at least in looking under the rug (that I have been sweeping shit under) and acknowledging what is there. Anyone else have experience with therapy? Good or bad? Or would like to try it?
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    Viper in Kao Yai November 2016